I guess that the boys’ mother has decided that she actually wants to be a mother to be a mother… kinda. She took them for like three hrs last weekend and wrote them an email. She told Sugar Bear that she would start seeing them more often but we have not heard from her since. I know that she will still only see them every two weeks if that, but I hate that she is going to disappoint them.
We got into an argument with her about the fact that she has plenty of money for herself to have fun and party (get her hair done, go to clubs, buy her daughter a water slide for her birthday). She says that we want her daughter to starve so she can pay us. Well we told her that we would write off her child support up to this point if she would pay for the divorce. She is engaged although Sugar and she are still married of course, she wanted to marry her 18-year-old boyfriend 5 months after they started dating. I am assuming that she is the type who wants to marry everyone she dates until they start treating her nicely. Well I guess that is the only venting I will get to do, because we promised that we would no longer criticize her as long as she starts being a mother. So let me say I realize if I were on her side guess I might blame it on Sugar…but I know Sugar and I know that if he had the boys then he would see them more than once a week and pay her all the child support she asked for as he did before they came to live with him. In fact he saw them at least e3 times a week during the time that we were dating before she gave the boys to Sugar.
Ok so I am done…wait…She is a stupid selfish bitch…ok I am done!